After lunch, I am boring to gossip with my colleagues.
Then we argue about pressure.
I say a man who has married and had a baby has more pressure than another man who doesn't marry.
He don't think so.He think the guy who hasn't baby and wife have more pressure.
I ask him what is pressure. He says the guy has nothing. So he has more pressure.I ask him whether he thinks the guy demanding more has more pressure.He says yes. I say the baby has little demanding,whether he has more pressure? He says of course.
I say since the guy who married and had a baby has to take more responsibility. Of course he will take more pressure.Pressure depands on his responsibility instead of desire.
But he insists on his opinions pressure from desire. And I stict to pressure from responsibility.
He says a man who married and had a baby can divorce.At lest he married and had a baby.But a becholor had nothing.So the becholor had more pressure.
I can't bear his word. The man can divorce.But he still takes responsibility to take care of baby. The pressure is still there.
We argue aloud with face blush.I am angry to say shut up.He says shut up too.
It is very interesting. After arguement, I write this article.I have no ideal whose opinions are right. Maybe we should find a way to relax our pressure.
